I lasted a whole month on the 'dating' scene.
I don't guess I was even technically dating -- I was just talking to a bunch of guys who ended up being bored/lame/whatever -- NOT on my level, whatever they were.
Seriously, I don't know how routine single people do it. This whole thing just makes me miss my future-ex more and more -- only because he totally gets me. When we talk, we have great rapport -- he's witty and makes me laugh. Do you know how RARE it is to find a funny man?
Okay, if I was looking for ONLY funny, I'd be okay. People are always funny - intentionally or not. I prefer intentional hilarity but sometimes unintentional works too.
I don't want ONLY funny though. SMART is also a requirement.
Do you know how many 'not smart' people there are in this world? Or if they ARE smart, they play dumb for the sake of social convention. Either way, I'm not sure where all the rocket surgeons are hiding but I promise you, it's not in plain sight or else I would have found some by now.
I would prefer 'him' just to be straight-up, no questions 'AWESOME' but I can't really qualify awesomeness in any one specific way.
I'm focusing on this too much.
I almost feel like I should be lectured about my BITT goals again.
Anyone up for this lecture? NOT Constance -- she needs a break. :-)
Yeah, I did it. :-D Liza rules.
"I just want to fall in love, finish college, move out of this house and get remarried. Get a great job, travel to Greece, buy a house with a porch swing and enough room in the back for a garden... and grow old together. It's NOT too much to ask." -- me
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Lol..where is Jake G. when you need him? I think you're well on your way to achieving your goals. :) You aren't overthinking. Just remember that you have to date losers in order to find the right guy. Be like me, don't put all your eggs in one basket. It's like a game, you get to know a guy, you either see a future or you don't, you eliminate the ones you don't see a future with, keep the ones you can. Don't get to invested with the ones you keep..lol. That's where I mess up though, I over invest. I may need a lecture next...
I just hope that you find someone that is not stupid OR dumb!
And I can never have enough of your lectures (or giving you lectures).
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